I am continually amazed at the lessons that I learn from my two year old!
Today, Teagan and I were playing with some homemade play dough*, and I gave him a pretty good chunk and was playing with my little piece, and I made a little bear. I set it aside and played with the rest of my dough. Teagan kept trying to grab my little bear, so I kept moving it farther away. I like to think that I am pretty creative, and I thought my bear was cool, and I didn't want Teagan to destroy him. (this play dough dries and so you can keep your creations.) Finally Teagan looked at me and said "Phhhh" (or in Teagan language "Please") and as I looked at him, I thought, why would I keep that stupid bear? Yeah, it's cool but not that cool, so I handed Teagan my little bear. He picked it up and gave it a hug, and in the process squeezed it into a little ball of blue dough.
How many times do I move something out of reach of my child, because it's too fragile, or too messy, or too... Whatever? Who cares if the pages of that neat children's book I bought get a little dirty, or maybe bent, or even torn? If my child never reads the book, what have I benefited from purchasing the book? If I don't let my child use the old box of Goodwill clothes for dress up for an afternoon, what little bits of imagination am I shutting out? And why can't I pull that picture off the wall and let him get his little fingerprints on the glass. They are so easy to clean!!! Last night when it was raining (for the first time in months) why did I grab Teagan and run to the car and get him in as fast as I could? Why couldn't I let him run with me and why couldn't we splash in every puddle that we came across? Why can't he stop and examine and pick up EVERY single rock that we pass when we go get the mail every afternoon? Why am I in such a hurry?
Just a little something that I have been pondering today, and I thought I would share it!
*The play dough was really fun, and not very messy.
2 cups flour
1 cup salt
1 cup of water
and some food coloring.
If you want to keep your creation, just bake it 200 Degrees for 2-3 hours or you can set it out and it will air dry. This dough is really good for making hand prints and preserving them.
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Lessons from a 2 year old!
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You and I are soooo alike! I've come to the decision that young children don't have great memories and are so forgiving so that we have the time to figure this whole parenting thing out. Hopefully I'll get it someday soon. :)
That is SO true. Taking time to do the little things is something I definitely need to work on!
We switched phones (though I have the same number) and then my new one was having problems but all is well now. Anyways I lost you number in the mix but would LOVE to chat!!! Call me when you get the chance cous!!!
Hello Cousin, Found your blog through anothers. Great to see you guys are doing so well.
Taylor Ensign
www.ensignisms.blogspot.com
I just found your site and it's adorable! I love your insights and your play ideas. I think I'll try the play dough soon, but I'll hold off on edible finger paints a bit longer. I love how you make being a mom look fun (even the can-be-stressful parts).
BTW, justamomha.com is my hobby website, if you follow this blogger ID you'll see our personal blog. Lots of things overlap between them, but our family site is more personal.
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